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February 03, 2009

Why is a "No" Good News in Sales?

Why Is a "No" Good News? by Tessa Stowe, Sales Conversation, 2009

Starting today, I want you to be on a mission to find a "no" every time you talk to a prospect. When you find the "no," celebrate it, give yourself a pat on the back, be grateful for it - it is good news.

Be grateful for a "no"? This sounds crazy. But read on and you will see that it is crazy not to be grateful for a "no."
Suppose you have a prospect and he or she wants you to write a proposal (or even worse, respond to a RFP - Request for Proposal). He also wants you to give a presentation and to have lots of meetings with him. All in all, he wants you to spend a lot of time and money selling to him.

Now suppose you do all he asks: you write the proposal (probably over the weekend instead of going to an important family event), you give the presentations, you have the meetings.

Then, at the end of all this effort, he says they have decided to do nothing or to go "in a different direction" or that they cannot afford your solution.

Has this ever happened to you?

All that wasted time, money and effort! Think of all the other prospects you could have been spending your time with instead. Think of the sales you might have lost because you did not have enough time to spend on them. Think of that important family event you didn't need to miss after all.

What if you had known before you spent all that time, money and effort that this prospect was going to do nothing or that they couldn't afford or weren't really that interested in your solution? What if you had found the "no" at the beginning? Would you be grateful? Wouldn't you give yourself a pat on the back?

So finding a "no" - a valid "no" - as soon as possible is very good news indeed.

This is why I said that, starting today, you want to be on a mission to find that valid "no" before you start the sales process.

So how do you find the valid "no"?

By putting your prospect through your qualification process, a set of questions the answers to which will determine whether there is a high probability that this prospect will buy from you now.

If you don't have a qualification process, find one fast. You absolutely cannot afford not to have one.
Besides putting your prospect through your qualification process, give the prospect as many opportunities as you can to say "no" to you.

Tell him about your weaknesses that you think may be relevant. He is going to find out about them eventually, so tell him about them at the beginning. If these weaknesses are critical, he will say "no" and you can move on to the next prospect. If the weaknesses are not critical, your trust level with the prospect will rise dramatically because you have been open and honest. This raised trust level increases your probability of success.

Once you've put your prospect through your qualification process and given her every chance to say "no," it's time to start the sales process. Still, even though you are in the sales process, you must continue to put your prospect through the same qualification process, over and over again, to see if her circumstances have changed such that she no longer qualifies.

Once you are in the sales process, it is much, much harder to do the qualifying because you have an emotional attachment to that prospect and that sale, and you don't want to think your efforts have been wasted. Hence, you will tend to not want to keep qualifying or, if you do, you will be a little superficial with it because you really don't want to uncover that "no."

When a prospect no longer qualifies - when you find that valid 'no" - no matter how much time and effort you have spent, you must now look at stopping the sales process and putting your efforts elsewhere.

In these economic times, you are probably thinking there are fewer prospects out there and that any prospect is a good prospect. If you think this way, you will not be passionate about looking for a "no" before you start the sales process and particularly when you are already in the sales process. The fact is, though, if there are valid reasons why they are going to say "no," they are going to say "no," and nothing will change that. So find the valid "no" as soon as you can so you can focus your sales efforts on qualified prospects.

In these economic times, qualifying is more critical than ever. You must - and I mean must - spend your valuable time, money and effort selling to those who want and need a solution like yours now, can afford it and who are likely to choose you over the competition. You must sell to qualified prospects only. You can't afford not to.

My message to you is be on that mission to find the "no." Do so by qualifying, qualifying and qualifying, and you will make more sales faster.

Tessa Stowe teaches small business owners and recovering salespeople simple steps to turn conversations into clients without being sales-y or pushy. Her FREE monthly Sales Conversation newsletter is full of tips on how to sell your services by just being yourself. Sign up now at www.salesconversation.com.

January 13, 2009

9 Strategies Guaranteed to Create Success in All You Do

Success. Everyone wants it. Only some have it.

1. Spend time identifying what you want – for tomorrow, next week, next month, and the next year, 5 years, 10 years, 20 years, 50 years.
2. Make relationships a priority, generating opportunities to connect with others.
3. Generously give of your time, energy, and money.
4. Practice saying “no”.
5. Ask for help when you need it.
6. Try something new.
7. Open the door when opportunity comes knocking.
8. Send thank you cards.
9. Evaluate where you are and where you’re going.

What are the strategies you utilize to guarantee your own success?

November 03, 2008

Project Vote Smart

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Only one day left to educate yourself on the issues! One day! Here is the best resource I've found on finding more about your state and Presidential candiates voting record and background.

Project Vote Smart. It's a free resource where 90% of the organization is run by volunteers. They have no agenda other than to educate the American people about those running for office.

Check them out at www.votesmart.org.

October 02, 2008

A Rockin' Attitude - 5 “Be”’s to Create Incredible Relationships

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If leadership is about influence, then you need both self and others to influence, making relationships an important part of the Art of Leadership. And, if your relationships come first in having an attitude that ROCKs, what does it take to create an incredible relationship?

The Five Be’s to Create Incredible Relationships

• Be of Service – Give and share freely.

My favorite childhood story was The Little Engine that Could. It was the story about a little train that climbed the mountain saying, “I think I can, I think I can…”

This mantra characterized my life. I wanted to work on the most difficult assignments and biggest challenges. I wanted to work on the projects that the best managers had tried to handle. However, I added a few words to the story and they were…”do it alone”.

We need other people. We need their help. And, we need to have a mindset that is willing to help others as well.

• Be Honest – Openness allows for understanding and builds trust.

In a study by Kouzes and Posner on the most important characteristics of a leader, honesty was selected more than any other trait. Whether you call it truth, ethics, principles, integrity, character, or any other number of names, people create relationships with people who keep their promises and can be trusted.

• Be Clear – A clear vision with written goals will help form the foundation of your personal and professional life.

Do you know what you want to happen in your relationships with others? Are you hoping they do business with you, become lifelong friends, or nothing at all? Spend time understanding what you want so you can take the necessary steps, turning possibility into reality.

• Be Present – Live in the moment in order to see the miracles around you.

Imagine if we only celebrated the BIG things in life. Make a list of all of the things you have to be thankful for at this very moment. To live with an attitude of gratitude means being grateful for every challenge and every opportunity, making that a very long list.

• Be Encouraging – To encourage means to inspire others with confidence and hope, contributing to real progress and/or growth.

About 8 years ago when I was living in NJ, I taught Sunday school to 4th graders. During that season of life, I saw how positive discipline encouraged my students to do better and negative comments only hindered their ability to learn.

In my business, I work with adults, understanding that even as adults we need positive feedback and encouragement.

The word “encourage” means to inspire with confidence, to give hope or to contribute to someone’s progress or growth. Encouraging goes far beyond the mere giving of gifts or compliments to others and making them feel good. It is also the way that we unselfishly spend time with others, or listen to them.

Encouraging others is sometimes awkward and takes “courage”. Think about what’s going on in your life and those around you today. What in your life do you need encouragement for? How about those around you?

An attitude that rocks is centered on relationships. May you renew your relationships and create incredible new ones throughout the rest of 2008!

September 29, 2008

Does Your Attitude ROCK?

CR-2B.JPGA few months ago, I spoke at the California Chamber of Commerce Ambassador Rally held at the Fender Center in Corona, CA. The Corona Chamber of Commerce hosted the event, and it was truly an honor to be part of such a well-planned gathering.

Since the topic was Corona ROCKS, I was excited to be part of the event. After all, I always wanted to be a rock star…or a solid gold dancer at the very least. My keynote presentation was centered on the theme of the event and was entitled, “Does Your Attitude ROCK?”

Leadership guru John Maxwell often speaks about the power of attitude and has even written a book entitled Attitude 101. Maxwell doesn’t use many words to talk about a person’s attitude, however, part of what he says does describe the power of being an upside thinker.

I wasn’t always an upside thinker. After years of hard work and research, I evolved. Or, in the words of Patti La Belle, “I Got a New Attitude. I'm feelin' good from my head to my shoes. Know where I'm goin' and I know what to do. I tidied up my point of view. I got a new attitude!”

So, what is your “attitude”? Attitude is your approach to life, your outlook, your manner, your way of thinking or behaving…it’s the way you view your personal and professional challenges. And, your attitude enters the room before you do.

What you do and who you are oozes out of you because we all stand for something.

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I desire to inspire others to live their Extraordinary. I approach my life in an upside manner, believing in unlimited possibilities, even as recent events on Wall Street are rocking people to their core.

I live to design my own destiny and help others design theirs.

That’s what my attitude is all about. What does yours say? Does it ROCK?

September 07, 2008

I'm Baaaaack!

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Yes, I'm back. Sniffling, sneezing, and hurricane watching but I'm back.

Two weeks ago I attended the fabulous Speak You Way to Wealth conference hosted by Arvee Robinson and Lee Pound and had a great time. During the event, I had the opportunity to meet Denise Wakeman from the Blog Squad (visit her at www.blogsquad.biz) who let me know that my blog that hadn't been touched since last year (!) was like living in a home with broken windows. I tried to tell her all that was going on but realized how lame my excuses really were. So I stopped. And, now I'm back!

I'm really back. And, I will be writing regularly......AND adding audio to boot! Leadership lessons, tips on growing your business from the inside out, how to make a difference, who is making a difference, and more on the power of gratitude. If there is something you want to see, let me know. Happy reading!

February 25, 2008

Ms. Lisa Marie Platske: Woman of the Year 2008

FOR IMMEDIATE RELEASE

Contact:
Lisa Marie Platske, President/CEO
Upside Thinking, Inc.
5225 Canyon Crest Dr., #71-154
Riverside, CA 92507
Phone: 951-334-9162
http://www.upsidethinking.com
leadershipstrategies@upsidethinking.com

Ms. Lisa Marie Platske: Woman of the Year 2008


Riverside, CA – February 25, 2008 -- Lisa Marie Platske, President of Upside Thinking, Inc. and author of the book Designing Your Destiny: Achieving Personal and Professional Success through Upside Thinking, was recently honored at the annual Gotta Have Heart Awards, sponsored by the For You Network, an affiliate of the National Association of Female Executives. She has been recognized as this year’s Woman of the Year, a woman in business who goes above and beyond to help other women succeed.

In her role as Chief Excellence Officer of her international leadership development company, Ms. Platske is transforming the face of business one leader at a time. As a coach, she has successfully supported executives and entrepreneurs through drastic industry and organizational changes, managed a $15 million dollar business restructuring, and equipped them to transform their work environments, double and triple their revenues, and achieve more work/life balance. As a speaker, she is known for the contagious high energy, humor, and entertaining stories that inspire and equip professionals to become the leaders they never thought they could be.

Lisa Marie attributes her success to her own clear leadership vision and the wonderful support of those around her—her husband, family, friends, and professionals with whom she’s made authentic connections.

For information: http://www.upsidethinking.com or Contact: leadershipstrategies@upsidethinking.com
Phone 951-334-9162

July 07, 2007

Designing Your Destiny: The New Book From Lisa Marie Platske

Are you designing your destiny, or do you go to sleep wondering where the day went?

Whether you work in the public or private sector, are an entrepreneur, a CEO, or a student, the levels of success, happiness, and meaning in your life are determined by your ability to answer the following questions:

“Who are you? What do you want? Why does it matter?”

Designing Your Destiny was written to inspire you to create a lifetime of progress and unlimited possibilities along your journey in just a few minutes everyday.

Ride the Upside because… Life is Change. Growth is Optional.

Praise for Designing Your Destiny

“Lisa Marie’s ability to connect with her audience is truly remarkable. Reading this book is just like listening to her speak - it’s straight from the heart and packed with powerful ideas that will help you to design the life you’ve always wanted.” – John Feeney, Owner, Feeney Financial

Designing Your Destiny is a must-read book for anyone looking for a practical, easy-to-use, guide to success. I enjoyed the book so much that I couldn’t put it down. If you are a leader, this book is for you.” – Collette Lee, Founder and President, C. Lee Enterprises, Inc.

“The remarkable achievement of Designing Your Destiny is that it enables you to create real and positive changes in your life by reading, reflecting upon, and applying the principles of Upside Thinking. Five minutes a day will change your life!” – Christopher Humphries, President, Mission Capable, Inc.

Designing Your Destiny is available for $17.95 (plus 4.95 shipping and handling). Click the book image above to order securely by credit card through Paypal (no Paypal account is required).

November 08, 2006

Young at Heart

My grandmother used to say that whenever she looked in the mirror she didn't recognize the person looking back at her. She felt so young but the years kept coming. Today, I met a woman who had the body of a rock star and had been married to her wonderful husband for 62 years! Jeanne Lamar is an accomplished painter who has won numerous awards, most recently the CWA National 2006 Silver Medal Award for her watercolor "Raptor and Snake". She is a vivacious young woman who dreams in color. Jim and I purchased one of her pieces on our trip to Healdsburg CA, Her logo is Passionate color and over-the-edge composition and JIm and I agreed!

Check out her work!